Oh that sucks :( I treat my FB like my internet living room; if someone were to come to my house and call someone else a "fucking twat" or whatever, I'd handle it a certain way. So, I delete comments every now and then, or warn people, but there's always that mess that happens when one is asleep or out having fun. People can do a lot of damage in a few hours. I hope this all works out for you in the end. You sound like a reasonable and thoughtful person, so don't resign your head status just yet ;)